Chanel Miller is the kind of young lady that will motivate you to do the right in a wrong.
I wish I had this brave young lady to listen to when I met my monster in the night, she would have empowered me to do the right in a wrong and not sit in my garden of shame and quilt. That’s what I did, what other woman did in the past. We would set up our “silent garden” where we cultivated our shame in silence not telling anyone of the hurt that was put upon us. When you suffer in silence it keeps the secret alive, but once you tell the TRUTH it’s like cutting a major artery . . . it can’t live.
If you’re finding yourself “doing it all” alone, you don’t have to – Reach out for help.
It’s so easy to get in the mindset of checking items off that never ending To-Do list.
Breaking things down into smaller tasks will make it easier to accept and accomplish what needs to get done.
Please release that unrealistic expectation you have of yourself. You are not perfect, you never will be and honestly who the hell wants to be?
There is no such thing as a perfectly balanced life because your life is unique. Having Balance in life may mean something totally different for you then it does to someone else. Rather than a perfectly balanced life, begin to strive for a life that leaves you happy and healthy at the end of the day.
Stop trying to “do it all”. Spend your valuable time on things that matter the most to you!
If that means you sleep in every morning and workout later. Nothing wrong with that!
If that means you start work at 11:00 am. Awesome!
If that means you don’t clean and organize your house and you hire somebody else to do it. Even better!
Ask for help. Create a life that supports your strengths and encourages you to ask for help in the areas that you struggle.
I promise you that if you begin to make decisions based on what makes you happy, your life will transform dramatically. Your time is so precious, don’t waste it doing things that bring you down and no joy.
